The Busy Mom’s Guide to Finding Time to Read

by Mandi on January 6, 2012

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One of the most common questions that friends and readers alike ask me is, “How do you find time to read so much?”

Despite the fact that I work full-time and homeschool our girls, I still read 8-10 books per month. It sounds like a lot — and I think it’s important that you remember that although I do those things, I also have my husband home full-time so that I’m truly not doing it all — but I really believe that finding time to read is realistic for most moms!

Here are my secrets to making time to read, even if you’re a busy mom:

Really Want It

Rather than waiting for time to read to fall into my lap, I actively look for time to read. I read while I eat breakfast and lunch in my office, while I ride the recumbent bike and in the evening while my husband watches TV. I’ve been known to read in the car on long drives, while Sean runs into a store for a quick errand and while my girls have art class in the afternoon.

Basically, when I have free time, reading is my activity of choice. Sometimes I think we say “I wish I had time to read,” but when there is time, we choose another activity instead. And there’s not necessarily anything wrong with that — especially if you’re choosing another activity you enjoy instead — but I think it’s important to realize that the amount of time we spend reading is often tied directly to how high it is on our priority list!

Make It Accessible

The reason owning a Kindle has changed my reading habits so dramatically is that my books are suddenly very — very! — accessible. I have tons of books to choose from so that when I finish one, I can immediately start another, and I can read my books from any of my devices so that a book is never very far away.

One of the reasons I’ve come to prefer a tablet over an actual e-reader as well is that I’m able to read in the dark, whether it’s sitting in the family room while Sean watches an evening football game or lying in bed while I unwind from the day.

By looking for ways to make reading more accessible, I’ve eliminated many of the obstacles that kept me from reading in the past so that it’s even easier to fit it into my day!

Improve Your Speed

I’m a pretty fast reader, but from time to time I’ll look for speed reading exercises to do to improve my speed and comprehension. Reading quickly definitely makes it easier to read more, and there are ways you can improve your reading speed dramatically if you’re willing to work at it. Here are some exercises to get started:

There really isn’t any downside to being able to read faster, and it has lots of benefits!

Prioritize It

And finally, you have to prioritize reading time as part of your daily and weekly schedule. Don’t wait for everybody to be asleep or the dishes to be done; instead, have the kids grab a stack of books and sit on the sofa together for silent reading time (even non-readers can participate with picture books), and leave the dishes for later! This is definitely an example of prioritizing the important over the urgent!

How much do you read each week? How could you make more time for reading?

Mandi Ehman is the founder and publisher behind Life Your Way and the co-author of All in Good Time, as well as a wife and the homeschooling mom to four beautiful girls. She lives with her family on a little slice of heaven in wild, wonderful West Virginia and loves coffee, chocolate, easy meals, beautiful things and minimalist spaces.
  • http://www.callherhappy.com/ Jenna@CallHerHappy

    I love this. I am an avid reader as well, and I have a 5 month old daughter. My Kindle has really helped since she has been born. I can read one handed while nursing! One other thing that really helped me was to find a series of books that I knew my husband would love. He is not a big reader, but when he finds something he likes, he can’t put it down. I bought him the George RR Martin series (which is a behemoth series…) and he won’t stop. Now, he sits down to read and I join him. My daughter sits on our laps and looks at picture books. I am about to go join him on the couch right now. And, can I say, my dishes are piled in the sink, my Christmas decorations are piled on the table, and I still have to go grocery shopping and do the laundry tonight. Whatever. It’s Friday!

    Jenna
    callherhappy.com

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Oh, yep, the one-handed reading is definitely another benefit of an e-reader! How fun that you sit and read as a family…love it!

  • Kristi Carter

    Thanks for all of these really great tips! I have the problem of taking books with me everywhere I go. So between my car, my husband’s car, the nightstand, the coffee table, the book bag, I can never seem to find my books! so it puts a bit of a stunt in my reading schedule. I think a Kindle or an iPad is a purchase for 2012:)

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      LOL, Kristi — that made me laugh! You definitely need an e-reader!

  • http://www.incredibleinfant.com/ Heather @ Incredible Infant

    Great post Mandi!  It’s amazing how much time we really do have to read, but choose to spend it elsewhere.  My husband won an iPad at work, so I’m really looking forward to “filling in the gaps” more with books!

    I Love LOVE LOVE your idea of making a specific list of books you want to conquer for the year.  Totally stealing that.  Thanks! ;-)

    BTW – just finished “Evidence Not Seen” – a biography of Darlene Rose, a missionary who was placed in a Japanese prison camp during WWII.  A very quick read and really impacting.  http://darlenerose.org/

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Thanks for the recommendation, Heather – my to-read list is definitely growing at an alarming paste, LOL!

  • http://joyceandnorm.wordpress.com Joyce and Norm

    I’ll have to check out the speed reading. I am trying to be more intentional about reading this year. Since I picked up the book Thunder Dog on Tuesdays I think, I’ve been reading a little during the girls’ naptime, and I just finished today! Still working through The Core.

  • Claire

    I could read in the car, but then I get car sick. Just a sign of getting older I guess. Lol
    I suppose durring the semi quietness of naptime I could read. I was given 2.great homeschooling books and need to read them.

  • Hbrmom81

    I read every night no matter what. I started this shortly after my first son was born and I lost all touch with myself and the things I once loved. I realized I still needed me time, I preach this to everyone I know! Read, read, and read some more!!!!

  • Renaysue

    I am finally finishing up The Screwtape Letters and will bring it Friday! So that I can read One Thousand Gifts! :) oh and that other book by some girl named Mandi!

  • jcart_1106

    I’m pretty streaky with my reading. I may read 3 books in 3 days, then not read anything else for a month. I agree that my Kindle has made a HUGE difference in the amount I read. It’s so easy to find a book and just start. Great post!

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  • http://www.quirkybookworm.com Jessica @ Quirky Bookworm

    I completely agree that you have to make time to read. I read 2-3 books per week, in spite of my 1 year old, and it’s because I choose reading far ahead of tv, or internet, or other leisure options.

    Also, I listen to audiobooks a lot. I do most of my housecleaning while Eleanor is napping, and I just pop in my headphones and listen to my latest book while I work. Mopping and toilet cleaning are much more fun if you’re listening to a good book!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      I haven’t had much luck with audiobooks – my mind tends to wander – but I love the idea in theory!

      • http://www.quirkybookworm.com Jessica @ Quirky Bookworm

        That’s why I actually prefer nonfiction audiobooks. If your mind does wander for a second, it’s ok. Whereas with fiction you inevitably missed some key bit of dialog and then have to back track… :)

        • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

          LOL! That’s funny! Maybe I just need to lower my expectations and not worry so much if my mind wanders!

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  • Leigh

    I love reading while the kids are in the bath. They need me there, but only in body. Since my son’s bath record is 2 hours I can get lots and lots of reading time in.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      What a great idea. No need to rush them when you’re enjoying yourself too!

  • Melinda T

    I love to read, but life got in the way and books got shoved to the side! But this year I’m determined to make the time to enjoy and read more books! No more excuses!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Good luck, Melinda!

  • http://www.wellroundedhome.com Kacey

    I just had to share this on Twitter. Great tips…and very timely because reading is one of my goals this year. I’m averaging about two books a month, so you’re definitely an inspiration at 8-10/month. I also find that having books ready to read on my iPad after I’ve finished one helps keep the momentum going. Great blog!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Thanks, Kasey! Good luck with your goal!

  • http://www.athankfullheart.blogspot.com/ Miranda @ A ThankFULL Heart

    This makes total sense. I’ve come to the conclusion that reading just isn’t a huge priority for me. I have free books from Amazon but the small screen on my iPhone bugs me… I much prefer books or anything printed on paper. I think that this advice goes with almost anything – if you love it, you will make time for it!

  • http://parentingmiracles.net/ JessieLeigh

    Oh, how I love this post!  Wonderful, wonderful points and made with total grace.  I must confess that it drove me NUTS to have co-workers say to me, “I wish I had TIME to read!” right after they got done gossiping for the whole lunch hour about some reality TV show. *raised eyebrow*

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      LOL, JessieLeigh…so true!

  • http://homeschoolblogger.com/martha Martha

    This is a great post and many of the ways I make time to read! I read and review books in exchange for good books! 
    In a week, I read an average of about 3-5 books a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I homeschool four active boys, but one thing I do, is take a book everywhere I go. When I have a minute in the car, I read, when I am waiting for a prescription, I read, when the children are in a class, I read…..

  • Heather

    I love the idea of everyone piling on the couch for some silent reading. My two year old loves to ‘read by herself’ and flip through books. Plus, modeling behaviors is SO much better than telling about them. Good practice for those 20 minute reading homework assignments coming in elementary school. LOL.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      I truly believe this is one of the best ways to give kids a love of books. We keep lots of books around, and the girls are perfectly happy to look at them and “read” the story through the pictures, whether it be fiction or non-fiction. Being able to read the words is unlocking another part of the story, but the foundation is already there.

  • http://makeithappenmama.blogspot.com/ Emily @ Make It Happen Mama

    I found out this week that Kindle has a free reader download for Blackberry – love it! :-)

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Oh, yay – enjoy!

  • http://livingthebalancedlife.com Bernice Wood

    I used to be an avid reader, years ago. Then life got in the way and most of the books I read were non-fiction self help or business books. I really would love to make this a priority and I have no excuse, I got a Kindle Fire for Christmas! I just need to find some inexpensive books to download, but I also know you can get some classics free. I would love to read some of Louisa May Alcott’s books! Think I will download one today!
    Bernice
    An important piece of getting things done

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      How fun, Bernice! Do you like the Fire?

  • Heidi

    I love reading – my 11 year old daughter loves reading… my 7 year old is dyslexic.  Reading has not been fun for her, and she feels left out.  So now we still have reading time – I read my Kindle, my 11 year old reads a book or her Kindle, and my 7 year old LISTENS to books on her Kindle!  I LOVE audible.com – spectacular high level books – my 7 year old is in love with Shakespeare (kids version by Charles Lamb and another by Edith Nesbit).

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      What a great idea — and what a great mom to be sensitive to that and come up with a good solution for everybody!

  • http://twitter.com/VictoriaEMason Victoria Mason

    Car line at preschool! i keep magazines and books in there. Books on audio too for the car and my ipod and home.  I read all the time and people ask me the same thing, “How do you read so much?” If I don’t I’m sad.  I go to bed a half hour early to read as well. So does my husband.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      I love that you sneak it in whenever you have a few minutes; I’m the exact same way!

  • MusingMomma

    For a long time I got in a lot of reading while I nursed my little one in the morning and at bedtime. I’m sad that he’s not nursing so long anymore, because that used to be a good hour of reading time for me each day! Like you, I’ve found the Kindle has had a big effect on how much I read, simply by making it so accessible. I’ve read more books in the past few months than I had in the previous couple of years, just because of it. http://musing-momma.blogspot.com

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      It’s so true that having a nursing baby really makes you slow down, isn’t it?!

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